BREAK THE RULES, MAKE SOME TROUBLE...
“Whatever you choose, however many roads you travel, I hope that you choose not to be a lady. I hope you will find some way to break the rules and make a little trouble out there. And I also hope that you will choose to make some of that trouble on behalf of women." Nora Ephron - Commencement Address, Wellesley College, 1996.
Still good advice in 2018!